“CHRISTIAN CHARACTER”
"Character is what you are in
the dark." D.L. Moody
INTRODUCTION:
As
we approach this subject matter, I will want us to consider the following
puzzles:
1.
Do you really know what Christian
Character is all about?
2.
Do you want to know?
3.
Is the study on godly Christian
Character as important as it is been presented?
4.
Of what use is Christian character
to our walk with God?
Real,
authentic Christian character is formed by our commitment to Christ. When we
surrender to Christ and allow His piercing work to grow and enrich us, so that
the Spirit flows. Our spiritual discipline, motives, obedience, and persevering
faith will be the keys. All it takes is to be in love with Christ. Seek His
presence, grow in your discipleship and be persistent in your prayers and in so
doing, you will end up in building your Character that will stand the test of
time.
When
we say we follow Christ, do our actions show that we do; are we in fact being
Christ-like? Or is something else happening in our life and relationships?
Perhaps, what we think we are like is not how we come across. Maybe, other
Christians see us as being reprehensible before our Lord and to others around
us, Or worse we are producing the "works of the flesh" to
all those around us, family, friends, Christians and non-Christians alike (Gal.
5). Being pretenders of the faith, giving a show, but having no real substance
behind us is extremely destructive to the Body of Christ and the reputation of
our Lord!
It
is imperative that when we say we are a follower of Christ, our character and
behaviors reflect Him and His call to us to the best of our abilities which
includes our temperament. If we are in leadership, this is even more
imperative! We demonstrate Character and integrity when we do what we say and
act out what we believe; if not, we are hypocrites, and woe to us for being one
(Matt. 23).
Our
call is to do as we teach, to do as we say, and to act as we teach others to
act. Integrity is of the utmost importance for the Christian leader (1 Thess.
2: 10-12; 2 Peter 1-11). Why? Because, hypocrisy gives people a false
impression of God, Insincerity gives people a false impression of who we are
called to be; it nullifies integrity and character. Because, God is holy,
righteous and just; God exercises grace. The willingness to model Christ's
character is far more vital for us today than the willingness to preach it. God
want us to be authentic-not pretentious (2 Cor. 8:9).
CHRISTIAN
CHARACTER DEFINED
Character
is often defined as a collection of personality traits within our behavior that
shows who we are. This is shown in our integrity, attitude, moral fiber,
disposition, and this shapes how we treat one another, good or bad. This is
mostly true, but it goes much deeper than that. Character is who we are and it
can be learned and built when we are in Christ. Moreover, real authentic
Christian Character is not just a personality or our disposition; it is a
description of who we are as a Christian, what we are called to be in our
entirety. It encapsulates the Fruit
of the Spirit from God's love and work in us. A good effectual
foundation of character is "synergistic" as each one
hangs and functions with each other. It is built upon the Fruit of the Spirit
which all of the other character traits are codependent and thus function and
rest upon. Our Character summarizes the essence of our walk with Christ being
exhibited back to Him and then onto others. Our Character can grow or shrivel
as our growth and faith formation in Christ is applied or blocked. Thus,
Character is the display case of Christ and shows others our entire lives as
Christians.
We
all have the ability to be good or be bad, to take what Christ has given us and
use it, or ignore or even perverse it. This not just about our reputation and
ambassadorship in Christ (2 Cor. 5:20); it is how we must be if Christ has a
hold on us! It is best assessed when we seek within us what is being exhibited
from us, then go before God and His Word to be better (1 Tim. 6:11; 2 Tim.
2:22).
Character
is the proudest through our hard times!
Character
is the springboard from which all we do and say in life comes. Developing
Biblical character in the face of our daily life and even in adversity is
essential and the proof text that we have a growing relationship with Christ!
Character is not just having integrity or honesty or doing the right thing, it
is not one aspect or even a few, it is a living, growing relationship in Christ
which produces a synergistic combination of the fruits of the Spirit.
The
Characteristics of a Christian
In
the gospel and letters of John, who was directly inspired by God, we are told
clearly and without equivocation how we are to behave as a follower of Christ.
From the Gospel's example of Christ Himself to the deep comfort of our
relationship in Him in John 15, if a person's behavior contradicts what the
Word says, he is a just a pretender. In his Epistles, John says if we declare
Christ as Lord, have a relationship with Him, but still walk in the darkness of
disobedience, how can we be Christian? (1 John 1:6; 2:4) A Christian who denies
essential doctrine would be an apostate, which means to reject the truth.
For example, claiming Jesus as Lord, and then rejecting His deity, would be a
direct contradiction (1 John 2:22-23). Inspired by the Spirit, John tells us
that we would be liars. If we decide to love our Lord and hate our fellow
Christian, this would also be a direct contradiction, a lie. The three "black
lies" of John's Epistle are the moral, doctrinal, and social
problems John faced during his ministry. He realized that if they are not
followed in truth and obedience, they are in opposition of the Christian faith.
Therefore, the Christian would be a liar. We may claim that we are a Christian
because we grew up in or go to a church, we made a decision at a crusade, or
because our parents are Christian, but when we continue in sin, deny who Christ
is, or continue in behavior contrary to Scripture, we are, as John calls it, a
liar. Only by what Christ has done for us and by allowing our relationship in
Him produce the characters of holiness, faith and love in us, can we prove the
claim we have in God and not be liars.
Character
comes out from a life that is hurried, stressed, overwhelmed, and yet where
promises are made and deadlines are met. It is a computation of who we are in
those stressed moments. Character is not just something we put into our lives,
but it is what comes out of our lives in those hurried times. It is beyond a system
of values or virtue we learn from our parents, or even at church. Character is
who you are to God Himself and those around you. It is the real you.
WHAT
IS CHARACTER?
Character
is aligning our lives so our behaviors are Christ-like. It is the fruit that
the vine of our abiding in Christ will produce. Thus, we look to the life of
our Lord as our prime example. We seek not so much what Jesus would do, but
what would Jesus have me do! This alignment is what produces "the fruit of
the Spirit," that we find in Paul's letter to the Galatians: "But
the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness, self-control." (Gal. 5:22-23a)
Obviously,
we cannot re-enact His character with any kind of perfection. However, we can
try our best by the power He gives us. The fact that our Lord was also fully
human and lived a life of perfection should give us hope and encouragement of
what is possible. "Be conformed to the image of God's Son." (Romans
8:29) Below is a listing of the most common fruits and characteristics we are
to emulate. These all work together to allow us to shine for His glory. Just
like the facets of a diamond, with only one or a few you will not see its
depth, splendor, and beauty. Let us be diamonds that shine; that are cut to His
purpose and call and not rough and hidden.
Is
Good Character In You?
Remember,
real genuine Christian character is shaped when you surrender to the Lordship
of Christ. We are to allow His piercing and continual work to grow and enrich
you, so that the Holy Spirit can flow. We are called to have lifestyle,
character, outlook on life, and behavior that is about living honorably! Who
and how we are make up the things we bring with us into eternity that will echo
and resound, so let our actions be worthy of His praise. In this way, we can be
the windows through which people can see Christ.
Building
and developing character is not something we just learn from a book or hear
from a sermon. It does not come upon us in the night, or sneak up in the day.
It does not come automatically, accentually, or suddenly. It is a process that
comes from being parented in it. Then it rests in us and in our motives. It is
a slow process. You may not realize you have it until others point it out in
you. Character is not permanent once it is formed. It requires our continual
hold and practice, in His Word, through our prayers and the practice of His
Fruit in and through us.
The
attitude is to learn and model Christ, so to be active in representing Him and
the virtues He proclaims as His ambassadors (2 Cor. 5:20). The call is to
remain in Christ and in His percepts and virtue, and not become contaminated by
what the world offers us. What may seem good may be misleading and will cause
us to rot physically by disdain and disease, erode our mind with dysfunction
and false thinking, and then eat away our soul spiritually.
As
we are the mirrors of Christ, He is seen by who we are. When we stand up for
the faith and act in good character, people will come against us with gossip
and slander because their plans become disrupted and their desires are found
guilty. But, when we remain faithful, regardless of the circumstances, they will
see virtue and honor in action and, thus, have a glimpse in God's character and
call even if they reject Him and seek to kill us. There will be times when it
seems our efforts are weighted because people do not listen or do not repent.
But, they are not. Each action we share is looked upon by others. We are
watched! So, when we live to honor God, people will have the example they need
to accept His grace or reject Him. We may never see the fruits, but they are
there. We have a God who will judge and return, so let us get busy and make
sure all those who come across our path see Him in us!
We
hope you will find these studies both challenging and insightful in your walk
with our Lord. The Word of God is our authority. Remember, our spiritual discipline, motives, obedience, and
persevering faith will be the keys. All it takes is to be in love with Christ.
Seek His presence and be persistent in your prayers. Blessed are they whose
ways are blameless, who walk according to the law of the LORD. Psalm 119:1.
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